:: naughty or rude?? ::

Hello.... How ur day?? Mine as usual..bZzzzzz.... But its ok, can handle this. Banyak actually nak update kat blog ni...but start with is story dulu lah ekk...

Hari tu my sis ade bring dia nye friend dtg rumah. She have 2 boys. Yang first tu dah besar around darjah 2 kot..but another 1 is around 4 5 yrs i think. Yang me nak citer ni about yg 2nd tu. Bile dia arrived je kan...he like shout here and there..."Oiii..oiii" like that. This thing happened on Aiden birthday. I macam...terkejut gak. But b4 tu my niece dah citer lah about this boy..but me cam ok2 je. Biasalah kan budak..naughty. Pastu kan dia terus je masuk..tak salam tak ape...terus gi pegang Ashaff nye toy(block). I macam...OK. This is 1st time me jumpe them.

Pastu dia makan as so on lah. But me tengok cam dia tak kisah pun ni rumah orang and dia buat cam rumah sendiri. Main all the toy lah..which is ok by me lah..coz all the kids pun playing gak. But after that he shouting lah....pastu mom dia ckp pun dia cam tak dngr. Pastu air tumpah...and dia cakap dng nada agak menjerit.."Alah sikit je.." I macam..ok what ever lah budak ni.

After semua dah balik...my sis lepak kat bawah lah with friend dia tu. After a while...anak my sis naik..nak mintak air..so its ok with me. But then kan dia pun naik that kids. Entah apa tah dia bwk..pastu dia tuang air..tumpah semua. Pastu pijak2...then keluar je. hahahaha. Me nak cakap ape..dah anak orang kan. Me ingat dah habis lah..pastu jap lagi tu dia naik lagi....buat bende yang sama...and kat dalam try tu ade air tau..me nye container tu air meleleh skit. Dia main campak je cup tu dalam try tu..boleh. Adoiiii...mom dia pun cam tak kisah je. Dah lah 1st time dtg kan..pastu u cant' control ur kid.

Itu nak cakap naughty ke? Or rude? For me itu rude lah....Me paham if kid naughty...or main2 with friend and sampai lupa. But if ur mom cakap tak dengar and some more u shout at her. Alamak lah kan.!!!!

I can tolerate with naughty kids but not rudeness. Me takut sngt if my boys cam tu..which i always talk to Ashaff about this. U can't do this and that..because it rude. Takut nanti orang tak suka. Tapi in that case..nampak sangat yang orang lain jaga anak dia..coz she is working mom. So memang tak makan saman lah itu budak. My hubby senyum je..when dia tengok me cam tak selesa with them. Iyelah....if my anak2 buah..like that memang dah kena jerkah dah with me. Nasib baik anak orang. To all mother...tak kira lah u keje atau tidak. Tak kira lah u jaga sendiri..or tidak. But when its come to kid...please lah teach them some manners. Explain to them itu rumah orang..or some thing u tak leh buat. Marah its ok....and some cubit also might help. That what i do..when my kids won't listen. Itu tidak meletakkan kite as a bad mother. Ok..so do what u need to do. Ni kire luahan rasa hati lah ni huhuhuhu. To my kids..jgn cuba2 nak buat perangai like that. U won't see an angle in me...hahahaha ok then until next entry..daaa XoXO

... : Malu ke? :...

Hello morning!!......wah..pagi2 dah jeguk blog ek....hahaha. Biasalah kan..untuk tidak mengikut rutin harian..nak lari skit dr rutin yg boring itu.. :-) actually me...dpt idea ni mase nak tidur semalam..but nak buka lappy..agak sngt malas...so simpan tuk this morning. hihihi

me...nak citer about pad....or tuala wanita atau tampon. Me..terigat masa me sekolah dulu...my sis ada sesekali dia gi kedai...balik dr kedai..mesti ade bwk balik benda yg berbalut. me..cam hairan. Masa tu me dlm sekolah rendah...so cam blur2 lagi lah about this thing. So...1 day me..ikut dia gi kedai...dia beli benda tu..pastu taukeh kedai tu balut with surat khabar lama. Me..cam ehhhh, asal lak ekk. Iyelah....kite masa tu kecik lg...so macam tertanya2 lah kan. Awat lah nak balut2. hahaha. But bile dah mengalaminye..tau sendiri. Bile dah semakin besar ...baru lah me tahu...ooo...malu ekk..if anak dara beli pad. so..balut lah. Tapi dulu kan..seingat me ...tak bnyak pilihan. Murah pun ye. Me..ingat dulu selalu beli brand carina...hahaha. Entah ade lg tak brand ni. Harga around Rm 1.20 kot...dalam tu ade 10 keping. But tak lah secanggih sekarang. Dengan ikut bentuk lah....kain senang cuci lah....rasa tak lembab lah...macam2. Dulu sangat limited. Sekarang ni sangat bnyk brand sampai tak tau nak pilih yang mane. Dulu kan agak malu2 lagi about this thing. But sekarang ni...dah semakin open. Dari ekolah lagi dah ade...subjek2 yg begini...so tak de lah malu sangat. Kat tv pun dah berlambak2 iklan. Itu lah yg me nak share.....hahaha. Dulu dah kini memang berlainan. Bukan nya sekarang ni tak segan or ape...but now its normal. Kita dah boleh open with this kind of thing. Sekarang ni ade jugak yang guy tolong beli kan pad tuk wife dia. Me...tabik lah if guy yang tak segan. Bagi me..if u willing to do that...that mean u really appreciate ur wife and understand them. So....pada hubby yg kat luar sana..cam ne..ade berani ka.....kuang...kuang...kuang.....

.: Its ur choice..... :.

me...nak citer skit. But bukan nak kepoh ekk. saje nak share. Citer ni pun...kawan me yag citer kan. So...tak tau kesahihan nye. But after all this is just a story and kite boleh ambil pengajaran.

Story about this 1 family. Parents and 3 kids. Age around 4 until 1 mth. Husband dia selalu outstation. So leave her and the kids. Tapi dia sangat kuat kerja. So, selalu lah tinggal kan kids with maid. Maid dia yang 1st... she pay rm 1,200. Tapi tak lama...i think around 1 mnth plus je kot. Pastu ade 2nd maid. She pay rm 1,700 monthly. She only cook and take care of the kids je. Not include cleaning. For cleaning, she hire another lady. And some time she love to work overtime...so she have to hire another person to jaga kids dia..at night. Maid yang existing tu tak larat nak jaga sampai malam. And dia selalu balik malam2...coz keje dia yang sangat bz.

Maid dia ade cakap that...if bayar murah pun tak pe. Saya tak larat nak jaga anak2 dia. Sungguh nakal. Tak dengar cakap. Ade sekali tu anak dia jatuh...and of coz lah kan dia marah kan the maid. Dia kata if jaga my kids..jaga je jgn clean. Ayoohhh...me dengar pun pening lah.

Cuba kire sebulan dia spend berapa just tuk jaga anak2 and kemas rumah. Sangat banyak kan. Maid punye gaji...je mengalah kan orang yg kerja opis. hahahaha. And yang paling penting time tuk anak2 tu tak de. Dah asyik keje je sampai malam. Anak nak dengar cakap kite pun susah...coz dia spend time with maid lebih dari kite. And as a maid...i don't think that kite nak marah anak orang kan.

I tak kata she is a bad mother. And i also not saying that me...a good mother coz i choose to stay at home. But some time....when its come to teach our kids. Its start from home. Its start from us. Not only the mother...but both. I know some guy memang bg bulat2 tugas tuk mengasuh ni. pada kaum hawa. Dia kata...i keje..so bz. U lah yang handle the kids. DON'T KACAU ME!!. ......but dia jugak yang ade 'awek' kat luar....adoiii...wahai lelaki. Jgn main lepas tangan je. Anak2 ni anugerah..so kena sama2 didik.

So, if u not there...to explain, to hug...and to scold....what ever yang silap. How they want to understand. May be them kecik lagi...but dari kecik lah kena didik. Jgn sampai dah besar sok...orang tua2 tengah borak pun dia leh menyampuk. Masa tu nak salah kan sapa???

May be, me ...is 1 of the luckiest person. Can stay at home while my hubby dok pi cari duit. We not rich. Banyak benda yang kena sacrifice. But as my hubby always say..its ok...duit boleh cari...but time with kids and how to nurtured them is MOST IMPORTANT.

Pikir2 lah ye. I tak suruh all working mom to quit. But tengok2 lah anak tu. Jgn sampai dok asyik kejar duit je..anak kat rumah...keseorangan. Balance ur time and what ever u do. Remember...time fly very fast. What ever yang we miss tu...tak kan datang balik.

Bra...oh bra

Hello!! ...today nak citer about bra...atau kata lain..undergarment. Bra come from words brassiere. Its a clothing that cover, supports the breast. Since the late 19th century, it has replaced the corset as the most widely accepted method for supporting a woman's breasts. Women wear bras for a variety of purposes, for support, to improve the shape of breasts, to reduce or to enlarge the perceived breast size, to restrain breast movement during an activity such as during exercise, to enhance their cleavage or to facilitate nursing. Most bras are designed to lift the breasts off the chest wall if they sag and to restrain them from movement. Bra designers strive to produce a garment that is both practical and attractive. But some lady tak kisah pun...or tak tau pun size bra sendiri. Tak kisah cam ne nak measure bra..or kat mane should u measure. Me, sometime malu pun ade...garuk kepala pun ade gak. Mane tak...muda2 but breast dah ke bawah dah. Tak pakai properly. Ade tu..breast besar but pakai bra yang kecik..pastu pakai baju yang sangat ketat. So u imagine lah how ugly its turn kan. Its very Important dear!! its our Asset. Kena tahu benda2 ni semua. Tak kisah lah if u beli bra yang murah..but its have to fit ur breast. Tak leh main pakai2 je. Here a some tip that me google. A poorly fitting bra can cause back problems, muscle tension, and even headaches. Since teens are still growing the strains caused by an improperly fit bra can lead to life long problems with posture and back pain. To ensure that you are wearing the right size bra you should be fit by a lingerie consultant once a year or after every noticeable growth spurt. http://teenadvice.about.com/od/brasforteens/a/bratypes.htm

How to measure and fit a bra: Step 1, Measure for Band Size: Need help? Expanded band measuring instructions.

Keeping the measuring tape parallel with the ground, measure around your bra directly under your bust after expelling all air from your lungs - you want this measurement to be as small as possible. Round all fractional measurements to the nearest whole number. If the measurement is even, add 4" if the measurement is odd, add 5" Step 2, Measure for Cup Size: Need help? Expanded cup measuring instructions. Standing straight, with your arms at your side, measure at the fullest part of your bust (while wearing a non-padded bra) making sure the measuring tape is parallel with the ground and not binding. Round all fractional measurements to the nearest whole number. Step 3, Calculate Your Bra Size: Subtract your band measurement (step 1) from your cup measurement (step 2). Generally, for each inch in difference, the cup goes up by one size. See the conversion chart here. Important Note: this measuring system tends to become less accurate as the cup sizes go above a D. Additionally, some manufacturers name larger cup sizes differently. See "The Proper Measuring Techniques for Plus-Size Women".

We want to look beautiful

but make-up and clothing are only a part of our wardrobe essentials. The foundation of every woman's wardrobe is lingerie. All women should have a basic lingerie wardrobe that makes them feel comfortable and look beautiful. See our "Lingerie Essentials" section for more on the perfect lingerie wardrobe.

http://www.herroom.com/bra-fitting-advice,901,30.html

So, dah dapat sedikit info kan...lepas ni pikir2 kan lah cam ne nak mencantikkan asset yang ada. And bukan hanya pakai bra sahaja..massage and srcub juga penting. Walaupun belum kawin lagi. Kena jaga lah dari mula. Jadi lah wanita yang BIJAK....

Congrat.... AJL 24

Ni nak citer about AJL 24 semalam. Ok lah not bad. The opening ok2 je. Tak de yg grand sangat . Actually memang every year aku tengok pun...enjoy ngan tak je lah kan. This year cam tak berapa pay attention sangat ...coz may be banyak muka2 baru..so its ok lah...layan je. Banyak gak lagu yang aku tak pernah dengar semalam...macam lagu Black tu..Aizat tu..sapa lagi ekk..Hujan kot. Lagu nye lah..orang nye dah famous dengan lagu2 yg lain kat radio. Bila tengok2 tu ...aku cam boleh predict ..sapa yang menang...n separuh dari aku nye predict tu betul. hihihi

Lagu Aizat tu..first time dengar..lagu Pergi..best n love voice dia in that song..so romantic. huhuhu. Lagu Kau & Aku tu memang favourite aku,so memang sedikit layan semalam..n aku tau dia akan memang tuk persembahan terbaik...Good one!!

Faizal Tahir...love him..love him. Voice ...n dia.huhuhu. Persembahan dia lain dr yg lain...but best. Oh nak citer ni..lepas je Faizal buat persembahan..cameraman tu capture gambar audience ..ternampak lah my friends..Amiu kat dewan tu..sambil terlopong-lopong mencari sesuatu...hihihi But don't worry beb..u still look hot...huhuhu Glamour kejap...

Yuna lak..hubby aku memang suka dia..voice dia memang different..n the performance ..nice..very simple. Black lak..ok ok je. Oh ye..masa Jeffrydin buat persembahan...tetiba je tv blank...tak keluar pun apa2. pastu keluar..Harap Maaf..dan diikuti dengan lagu Jay jay. huhuhu. Teknikal problem lah ye..paham2 live show!! Overall ok je AJL 24 untuk tahun ni. Congrat to all!! Oh..jap nak story about this one movie..(terkeluar tajuk ). Changeling kat Astro 411 semalam. Semalam antara nak tengok citer ni n AJL..but citer ni aku dah tengok cd...so tak pe lah. But nak tengok lagi sekali... n aku tau Astro akan ulang balik. Citer ni sedih sangat..n if jadi lah kat aku...boleh giller kot. Citer ni about anak dia kene culik...n pihak berkuasa ganti kan anak dia ngan anak org lain. Dia fight for the truth.. tu bukan anak dia. But pihak berkuasa buat macam2 tuk cakap yg dia tu salah. Kesian kan..aku nak citer banyak2 pun cam tak best nanti bg sapa yg tak tengok. so..gi lah tengok n renung2 kan.